Don’t Be a Rude Dude

What is rude and what is polite is different in every culture. Each lesson we will discuss some things that many Chinese do that can be considered Rude, or not polite in the Western business and social world. We will give you advice on you what NOT to say or do. Remember, don’t be a Rude Dude!

Never say “ok”. It is rude and it is a weak way to say “yes”. Saying “ok” shows that you are not very smart.

Never say “hello” when someone’s back is to you or if they are walking away. Try “excuse me” or “pardon me” People usually only say hello on the phone, or when a person introduces you to a new friend.

Never say “say” when you mean “no’. If someone asks you if you understand, don’t say “yes, yes, yes.” It is better to say, “Sorry, I don’t understand.”

Never say “no” when you mean “yes”. If your boss asks if you think you are a good worker, say “yes.” If your friends offers you some water, and you are thirsty, say “yes.” Unlike in

China, Westerners will only ask once.

When you talk with someone never look away from their face. Try looking into their eyes. Keep eyes contact. Smiling a little always helps. Remember, “when in

Rome, do as the Romans do, “so don’t be a Rude Dude!”

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